by Greg Hague
Crosby and Brandon
Have you ever witnessed a full moon appear while the sun is still shining? Or a rainbow emerge in the fury of a thunderstorm?
Sometimes things aren’t what we naturally expect. It’s true in science.
It’s also the case with fathers and sons.
Dads are supposed to mentor their sons. But when dads do it well, sons often become the guiding light for their dads.
That has certainly been the case with my boys. These days I learn as much from them as they do from me. My friend, Brandon, is enjoying a similar experience.
Brandon Steiner is a brilliant, successful entrepreneur. His New York-based Steiner Sports is the largest sports memorabilia company in the world.
In a recent blog, Brandon shared some words of wisdom from his son, Crosby. I asked Brandon if I might share some of “Coach Crosby’s” insightful son-to-father wisdom with my Savvy Dad readers.
Enjoy . . .
High School
Pick where you go to college for the “wrong” reasons. Sports, weather, social scene, etc. If those things are important to you now, they will still matter when you’re there.
Savor your fleeting moments. There are a lot of experiences you’ll have that you just won’t ever be able to recreate.
College
Freshman Year
Meeting people should be your number one priority.
Classes are easy…a lot easier than upper level classes. Set the bar high for your GPA.
Effectively manage your time. If you don’t go to class, your grade suffers. Period. But, just being in class doesn’t mean you’re going to learn (especially if you spend the entire time playing snake on your phone).
Sophomore Year
Write a resume: You might not think you have enough to put on there now, but you will. Use what you do have as a base to start with. Always ask someone to review it.
Recruiters have great memories: Go to career fairs, corporate events and presentations. They’ll be calling you when you do need an internship/job. Besides, you get free food.
Join a club. Become president of said club. Fill formerly empty resume.
Junior Year
The people you choose to spend the most time with will have the greatest effect on your happiness. Choose wisely, and don’t be afraid to re-evaluate who you’re hanging out with every so often
See the value in any experience: I passed up the chance to spend three months roaming around Europe so I could take an internship and add another line on my resume. I quickly learned the true value of those two options.
Senior Year
Enjoy yourself: Reap the rewards of your hard work by taking every opportunity to enjoy time with friends and family.
Go on a road trip: There is nothing more exciting than getting in a car and seeing the country. Stop anywhere and everywhere you can south of the mason dixon line for BBQ and/or Chik-fil-A.
Savor your fleeting moments. There are a lot of experiences you’ll have that you just won’t ever be able to recreate. (Sound familiar?).
Now
Get a job: Take the process seriously, but don’t get caught up in what opportunities your friends are getting. Run your own race.
Seize the moment: I once got a call from a buddy during class. He said he had a ticket to the Michigan-OSU basketball game in Columbus. Tip-off was in six hours and we were 200 miles away…it was a great game.
Final Thought
At an event for students in my five-year program, I had a conversation with the program’s benefactor and namesake, an extremely successful real estate developer. As he discussed his houses in Vail, Florida and New York, I exclaimed how exciting that must be. I’ll never forget his reply:
“Yeah, having houses across the globe gives my wife something to do, but it’s all B.S. I couldn’t care less about them. The only thing that matters in life is relationships with friends and family. That’s it.”
Here is the link to Brandon’s Full Blog.
