Author Archives: Greg Hague

About Greg Hague

I am an entrepreneur, attorney, author, motivational speaker, pilot, and world motorcycle traveler. First and foremost I am a dad. And, I am the founder of www.savvydad.com. My new book, How Fathers Change Lives, is a "Chicken Soup" collection of stories about remarkable dads... 52 examples of doing it right. What they say. What they do. Best advice. The stories are inspiring, touching and fun. The life lessons are great. This book has been recommended by some very special people including my friend, NY Times #1 Best Selling author Harvey Mackay ("How to Swim with the Sharks.."). In its first month it received over 50 five-star Amazon reviews. Learn more about Greg. Follow Greg on Google+

When You Fall on Your Face Stand Up with Grace

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“Have no fear of perfection — you’ll never reach it.”

—Salvador Dali

Today’s story is from Elisabeth Hirsch.

Nerdy. Needy. In my own skin uneasy. My name is Elisabeth. When I was a teen, I was awkward back then. Stumbled on stones. Uneasy in groups. Tongue-tied with cute boys. Even my clothes didn’t look right.

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Dad Phil and Elisabeth in Sundance, Utah, 1988

But here’s the thing. It didn’t make sense. My mom was voted homecoming queen when she was my age. And Dad? Handsome. Confident. Suave. He always knew what to do, what to say. No wonder. My father was a star quarterback when he was my age.

Mom and Dad just didn’t “get me” — especially Dad. For him it had always been easy. Day after day, he soared through life. Touchdown. Score! Whatever Dad did, crowds seemed to roar.

While me? One fumble after another. The world watched me stumble through life. Until it happened. Dad and I went for groceries. Walking into the store, Dad’s foot caught on the rug. Face-first toward the tile floor he plunged, as others looked on. READ MORE 

24-Hour Rule — The Wait is Worse Than the Wallop

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“When we direct our thoughts properly, we can control our emotions.”

—W. Clement Stone

Today’s story is from Bill Stafford Jr.

I wait. I watch. The target would soon appear. My tactics? Well refined.

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Dad Bill Sr., sister Sandi, and Bill Jr.

Unsuspecting, she casually strolls out of the house onto the lawn. That silly smile… it would soon go!

The time is right. I jump out from behind the car. “Attack!” I yell, as I hurl a volley of dirt pellets straight at her face.

WHACK! Smack in the mouth. Perfect aim. Again, I throw. SCORE! The side of her head. Hurts pretty good, I’ll bet. READ MORE 

The Most Powerful Coach in Sports — Nick Saban Talks About Dad

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“Next to doing the right thing, the most important thing is to let people know you are doing the right thing.”

—John D. Rockefeller

Today’s story is about Nick Saban.

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Nick Saban in action.

Nick was just a boy at the time. The pit of a dangerous mineshaft was no place for children… but into those dangerous depths he headed. A mandate by dad, this was clearly not Little Nick’s choice. 550 feet deep. Pitch dark. Very hot. Scary, indeed.

Thick, acrid air filled Little Nick’s lungs. It was a silent descent. Neither Nick nor his dad spoke a word. He was terrified. Any kid would be. At the bottom, this father finally acknowledged his frightened young son…

“If you don’t get a college education,” he said, “this is where you’re going to end up every day.”

Without another word, they began the long hike back to the top. Nick never forgot. READ MORE 

Lazy is a 4-Letter Word

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“If Joan of Arc could turn the tide of an entire war before her 18th birthday, you can get out of bed.”

—E. Jean Carroll

Today’s story is from Eric.

I was born with a lazy bone.

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Eric with his dad, Chris, around the time of the “incident.”

4th of July. Every year with neighbors and friends we packed into a caravan. Coolers overflowing. Shoulder to shoulder in our mom’s and dad’s trucks. Off we went to Blacksburg High. Why? Fireworks. From the bleachers, it was a magnificent site.

Long ago, one 4th of July day, my cousin and I decided to take a dip in our inflatable backyard pool. “OK?” we asked Dad. From the yard he yelled, “Fine!”

My parents were divorced. I had just arrived to stay with Dad for a few days. My duffle and suitcase were still packed, up in my room. I rummaged around. No swimsuit to be found.

But don’t forget: I was born with a lazy bone.

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One Decision Away

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“You’re always just one decision away from a completely different life. Your one decision to read your kid a bedtime story every night. Your one decision to coach his or her t-ball teams. We have no idea how momentous the impact of one decision can be in life.”

—Kurtis Parks

Today’s story is from Kurtis Parks.

Meet my dad, Terry Parks. The pastor. The dreamer. The deal maker?

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Kurtis and his dad Terry today.

“I’ve got a vision for you, my son…I am going to start my own church, and I want you to be the music leader!”

I stared back at him, dumbfounded by the suggestion…I was 11 years old! I shrugged it off. “No thanks, Dad.” Not a chance. Only thing I cared about was how to throw a better curve ball. But dad already knew that…

“Ten bucks a week for an hour of piano every day…deal?” Ten bucks a week?! Whoa. Some serious coin. Visions of gigantic overflowing Slurpees and mountainous stacks of baseball cards encircled my head. READ MORE 

Daughter becomes Nashville Music Star

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“Let us sacrifice our today so that our children can have a better tomorrow”

—Abdul Kalam

Today’s story is from Nicole Johnson.

Nicole dreamed Nashville… and Dad.

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Nicole and her dad.

You may recognize Nicole’s lovely face… and golden voice. At just 18 she appeared on “The Voice,” Season 3. Nicole didn’t just “appear” on that stage. Her dad (and mom) gave up much so their girl could play.

Nicole had a dream — then only thirteen. Come hell or high water, she was determined to succeed. She told Savvy Dad, “I was young, barely a teen, but I was focused, intense… committed that nothing would stand in my way.”

However, at thirteen you need more than talent and grit. You need parents willing to sacrifice big. It started with expensive coaching, a burden on Dad. And, Nashville was the place to perform — where anyone trying to make it in country music needed to be. READ MORE 

Mother to None. Mom to Thousands.

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“Regard your soldiers as your children, and they will follow you into the deepest valleys; look on them as your own beloved sons, and they will stand by you even unto death.”

—Sun Tzu

Today’s story is from Kaziah Hancock.

A mother to none. Cervical cancer robbed her of that. But in a sense, she is a mom to thousands.

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Kaziah’s first portrait of a fallen soldier:
James Cawley of Utah.

Fallen soldiers. They are her daughters and sons. She’s never met a single one, but she’s loved — and mourned — many. They gave their lives protecting our country. She brings them to life on canvas. She gives them a presence in homes left behind. A lasting memory for those they loved most.

Kaziah Hancock is sometimes referred to as the Goat Woman. She lives on a small ranch in Utah with, you guessed it… about 100 goats. She’s a big-hearted lady who exudes independence and strength. To do what she does, you could be nothing less.

She explains in a news interview, “I don’t know how political I am. I don’t get into all that crap. I just love freedom, ok?” READ MORE